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Eric Silverman's avatar

Hi Rachael,

I love how you and your Danuta came to bond and fill the empty space in both your lives. Well written and accessible. When I lost my mom in 2019, it was losing a part of myself. My oldest niece eulogized her; "grandma was a badass." I think of her, the enormous impact she had on me, now that I read your piece. Thank you.

Btw, i signed up for your 3-week TBE workshop, but couldn't make last week. I look forward to seeing you this coming Sunday evening.

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Rachael Cerrotti's avatar

I love the line "grandma was a badass"! My cousins and I would have said exactly the same thing about our grandmother.

I look forward to seeing you tonight in our workshop!

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Jill Swenson's avatar

This had me in tears by the end. To Danuta!

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Lois Lowry's avatar

Mothers-in-law (mother-in-laws?) traditionally get a bad rap (I looked that up to see if it is "rap" or "rep"...and the answer was the former)...and are so often figure of derision and scorn. Since I AM one, and I hope not the cartoonish sort, it was lovely to read this. Ironically, I am also the mother-in-law of my son's widow. It is such a monumental thing to have in common, that loss of someone we both loved. Thanks for sharing your memories of Danuta.

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Rachael Cerrotti's avatar

Thank you for reading! I feel like there aren't enough stories out there about the beautiful power of a mother-in-law. I'm glad this piece could contribute something positive.

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Julie Lindahl's avatar

What a divine couch! Wish I had one. This made me think of my father whom I miss with equal intensity each day. xo

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Rachael Cerrotti's avatar

And it's really comfortable. I've grown to love it.

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Nina Olff's avatar

Rachel,

What a beautiful story that captures spiritual life in the way I feel it.

I love what you write and who you are.

Thanks for sharing with me.

Love,

Nina

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Jennifer Goss's avatar

Beautiful - can't wait to see your reno pics!!

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Rachael Cerrotti's avatar

Close to done!

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Harriette DAVIDSON's avatar

Love the Danuta story, ❤️

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Jon Adam Ross's avatar

Beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

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